Work with Me

The work starts with you.
Not your child.

Most parents arrive here after trying everything else. The books. The therapists. The behaviour strategies. And still ending up in the same argument on a different Tuesday. Coaching works differently — we look at the pattern beneath the pattern. The Drama Triangle running your house. The wound underneath your reactions. When you see it clearly, you have a choice. And having a choice is the whole thing.

How we work together

Two ways in

Choose the level of support that fits where you are right now.

1:1 Coaching

Private Coaching Package

Personalised, deep, and built entirely around your specific family system. We map your Drama Triangle defaults, identify where your history is showing up, and build the practical language and scripts for your actual situations — the school mornings, the tech battles, the silences. Not textbook examples. Yours. Most clients describe a shift within the first three sessions — not because things get easy, but because they finally understand what's actually happening.

12 sessions · Bi-weekly · 60 minutes each
  • Full Drama Triangle assessment — your default roles under stress
  • Personalised Anchored Parenting framework for your family
  • Between-session voice note support
  • Access to all digital resources included
  • Recorded sessions so nothing is lost

Pricing discussed on discovery call

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The process

How it works

1

Discovery call

A free 45-minute conversation to understand what's happening in your family and whether coaching is the right fit right now.

2

We map the system

Before anything else, we identify your Drama Triangle defaults — the roles you reach for under stress, where they came from, and what they're protecting. Once you can name it, you can change it.

3

You practise

Every session ends with one experiment — not homework, not a script to memorise. One small repeatable move to try in the specific pattern we've been working on. The long game is built from thousands of tiny moves, not a handful of big ones.

4

Things shift

Not all at once. Not in a straight line. But they shift. Because the system is changing — from the inside.

Honest clarity

Who this is for — and who it isn't

This is for you if
  • You're willing to look at your own patterns, not just your child's behaviour
  • You're exhausted by the same cycle repeating and genuinely want it to stop
  • You can hold two things at once: your child's struggles and your own
  • You're ready to be uncomfortable in service of something better
This probably isn't for you if
  • You're looking for strategies to control or fix your child
  • You want to be told you're right and your child is the problem
  • You're not ready to look at where the patterns came from

If you recognised yourself in the first column, this is exactly where to start.

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