Three ways to reach me

Pick the door that matches what you're carrying.

If you want to work with me directly, book a Pattern Call. If you want to meet me in a room of women in the same boat as you, come to Wednesday's meetup. If you just want to read what I'm thinking, the Substack is free.

For 1:1 work

Book a Pattern Call.

One hour. We map the specific pattern playing out in your home and you leave with one anchored move to make this week. By application — I read every one before booking the call.

  • One 60-minute Zoom call
  • A written pattern map I send you afterwards
  • One concrete experiment to run before next week
  • A clear read on whether further work with me is right for you

Application takes three minutes. Scheduling happens after I read it.

For everything else

Write to me directly.

If you have a question, a press request, a speaking enquiry, or you're just not sure which door is yours — email is the right place.

Email

[email protected]

I read every email. I reply to most within 48 hours.

Based in

Sydney, Australia

Working with parents across AU, NZ, UK, US & Canada.

Office hours

Tuesday–Thursday
9am–4pm AEST

Mondays I write. Fridays I parent.

For the reading kind

You're Not a Bad Parent — the Substack.

Long-form essays from the kitchen floor. One a week, sometimes two. About teenagers, marriages, work, recovery, and what it actually takes to stay anchored in a house that keeps moving.

Free. Unsubscribe whenever. No upsells. No funnel. Just the writing.

For the in-person kind The Only Way Out Is Through

Wednesdays · 6:30pm AEST · Zoom · Free

An hour with other women in the same room you're in. No script. No homework. Just honest conversation about what's actually happening at home and what one anchored move might look like this week.

RSVP on Meetup

First-timers especially welcome. Cameras off is fine. Cup of tea encouraged.

Not ready for any of the above yet?

Start with the free guide. It takes ten minutes. No email needed. No upsell after.